Showing posts with label life人生. Show all posts
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贪心的人就是要这样做!



“你喜欢free gift吗?”
“这课程是免费的。”
“这餐我请你,不用钱。"
听到以上的话的人大多数都会开心接受,对吗?
人本性上真的很喜欢不劳而获的事物。

很多时候在路上就会有商家为了宣传他们的产品而到处派发产品样本(sample)。
白白得到是很开心没错。然而那开心的层次只会像那sample的大小而已。
因为得到那东西前没有过程的故事、感情等,所以喜悦的价值总是比不上辛苦得到事物的那价值。

在公司里也是一样,虽然白白地得到一些什么时会很开心,
但如果自己付出辛劳去做后,得到超乎自己期待的认定,而且有所得,
就会有加倍的喜悦和成就感,还会有在那之上的赠品(free gift)如自信心、盼望、动力、效率等。

Yellow Merdeka day

When we talk about "Malaysia", "Merdeka" or some other related words and phrases, basically our mind may appear with "multiracial culture", "innocence", "multilanguage","nice food"...

In 2015, our Merdeka has raised to another level compared to the previous years.
This year, we have renewed the historical page of Merdeka.
Obviously, our motherland has filled with the color of bright hope- yellow.
Even the Malaysians which study and work abroad also dropped the yellow in the other countries.

The yellow people are not the people to aim for an extreme rally demonstration.
There is just a clear vision as well as the meaning of Bersih ('cleanliness' in English).
Apparently, Bersih itself means 'keeping free of superficial imperfections' embedded with the sense of diligence.
Yea, that's why the Bersih revolution has demonstrated for 4.0 (4th time) this year.

Some people think "Bersih" is a sensitive topic.
However, let's raise our thought level to think about what Bersih actually is.
In the past, there is the inavoidable historical fact that the racial issues happened in the country.
Nevertheless, the good news are that the lesson has been learnt and the nation has been more mature now.
Overall, the nation just want to strive for a better Malaysia from their innermost heart.
Not to ban whom but rather want a bright future of Malaysia.
No other ridiculous purpose to brush the road with yellow under the hot sun.

Thank God that there is no serious dispute or injuries during the Bersih rally this year. Prayer works and the people's rational mind take it for granted. 
The negative and discouraging situation is minimized and it proves that the yellow group does not mean for stimulating racial issue but just want to restore the peace and right.


Hence, the effect might be yet clear, but let the time speak.

One shall take time to clean a "land".
The truth is no one can change better in one day.
Even we shall clean our house everyday to keep it clean and tidy.
As my life mentor always shares,
"Faith is all about a consistent action to clean our mind and life".


Transformation in every single one of us is often the most essential treasure to step into a brilliant future.

My life mentor always advises us, "The creator God has given you a country since you were born. You might dislike the country given to you but there is God will on you and on your motherland. So, love and pray for your motherland and He will listen as well as helping the development based on human's responsibility to serve the land better."

感谢的眼睛

在7月尾也就是semester break要开始时就恳求神让我在假期中找到part-time job。
除了为了存一些零用钱,我更想在工作中学习、累积经验、提升层次。
我的人生导师——郑明析老师以着他的生活总是教导说:
去做才有所得。去做才会生下故事。

结果,祷告恳求了几天,就找到了这个5天的event job(8月11-15日),是一年一度很大型的ARCHIDEX。时间也符合我的要求。真心感谢神让我能找到这份工作。
这五天面对着数不完的文件资料,要去一些公司的摊位询问使用QR Scanner的feedback,在门口站一整天为1500人进行scanning 工作。

看起来像是重复又乏味的工作吧?但是从头到尾我都带着很感谢的内心。

神赐下很好的supervisor、工作组长、队员。
即使只是五天,在我们工作的“鸟巢”却充满了各种好笑的回忆。
一回想起还是不断想笑。很有趣的队友们~

果然在主日话语说过:感谢会生出更多感谢
感谢会让人想法的出发点转向正确的轨道。
人常说“有好的开始就有好的过程和结尾”嘛!
想法真是我们每个人根本的核心,是如此左右我们的一天、一生的命运的。
在队友们的身上,因着感谢,比起缺点,我更看见的是每个人的优点。
我很惊讶,神透过其中一个队友Carmen,在这五天里都可以看见我是一个什么都规划得有条有理的拘谨型。
“拘谨”这两个字在我脑中一直挥之不去到现在。
看来是神赐下强烈的感动让我好好思考自己这部分。
Carmen的个性跟我有很大不同。
她是比较爱动、不修边幅、喜欢刺激、要工作当然也要玩才行。
而我是一旦被赐予工作,就是想认真做好的人。

所以我很感谢的是,从她身上看见自己要调整的部分。
人生短短数十年,认真工作也不忘适当地玩乐是很好的。
让我想起郑老师说过:享受过程比起只要得到结果更为重要。这样在过程中也会获得事物。
这是一门智慧。
陷入工作往往让人费尽精神,会遇到瓶颈。

后来,我在实践的过程中发现“专注和陷入是两回事”。
差别在于:
陷入的结果是会让人衍生出很多疲累和埋怨的自我想法。
而专注的结果是让人事半功倍、缩短该完成的事物的时间,夹带着成就感
啊~真是有茅塞顿开的感觉!

而我们的supervisor心态很young。她让我们在工作时丝毫没感到压力。
在她身上看见的是耐心、总是带着令人心情放松的笑容。
还有队中年纪最小的Yi Wei妹妹,让我回想起中学刚毕业的那种青涩岁月。呵呵~
而我们读Architecture的队友Jean,虽然他有很多让我看不过眼的恶习,但是他画工很不错。就是他制造了很多好笑的回忆。
我们的队长Mohadi也是很幽默。他很会照顾大家。他还搞笑地对我们说:you all owe me ahh!

打开感谢的眼睛真是让人看见全新的事物。
总是不断感谢地来过每一天吧!^^

遇见走过的时光

那个站起来的晚上,
看到一个人,
回想起,
过往那些日子,
一起走过,
那许多,
珍贵回忆。

多久没见,
似乎无法
回到当初的感觉了,
剩下的是余温。

仔细思想,
这是多么可喜之事!

走在两条平行线,
彼此提升前进,
两条平行线的距离越行越远,
终点却是最有盼望的一个。

再次双眼交接,
里面是更新的。

满满祝福,
在我们无声中互相传达。

人们说,
有过去才有现在的自己。

这一晚,
我看见的是,
没有了过去的我们,
才是变化。

买书背后的故事

7月15日,逛Popular一年一度的书市回来的战利品。没有很疯狂的多。
但是这次的品味绝对不是以往爱看的那些类型。
杂志是想买给姐姐看的,因为她有看杂志的习惯。结果随书附送了超多赠品,真是物超所值(这里没显示赠品),有各式各样名牌的护肤样本、两个洗衣液小瓶装加一个超大盒Fitnesse Cornflake. :D

book,change,life,emotion
和你分享我所买的两本书吧!
《卖到顾客的心里》是讲述7-11便利商店创办人经营路程和秘诀。
我从来不太对有关经商的书籍有兴趣,也因为看不懂当中商业术词,但是今年就是尝试买了这类型的书。这次,看见这本书时,我的第一灵感:这本书表面是说经商的事,但其实深入去看就是关于管理、说服力。

人的责任

那天星期一,7月6日,早上7点多,像往常一样的星期一,开始一整天满满的行程。
这个时间是我带着惺忪的头脑,开始1小时多的车程前往大学。
今天迟了几分钟,所以特别赶路。

在徳士上,像往常一样会望了望后面才开门下车。
由于我坐的位子一下车就是马路,所以我更加望望后方,确保没有车才开门。
记得那时德士后面有其他车辆,马路上没车。好,我就开门准备下车了。

刹那间,不知哪来的摩多呼啸而过,正好是车门打开2cm的距离。意思说若摩多靠进来几cm,我和对方或许会受伤。或许摩多撞上车门,或者撞着我的脚。最感谢神无时无刻的保守,这次绝对是透过人来守护我的性命。

在那一刹那间,德士司机在我开车门时大叫了一声。我被他的大喊吓着了而把脚缩回来了。
回想起来 真是个惊险的经历啊!
这也是我头一次经历这样的事。
最近治安也不太好,无论何时何处,唯有安全第一,提高警惕。人本身做到自己的责任分担,神才会在那条件之上动工。



别做情绪的奴隶

过去两天被一个性格强势的同学针对。
感谢神让我看见以情绪来生活和对待人的可怕
若是在还没遇见我的人生导师——郑明析老师,我一定不罢休到底并且跟糟糕的人对抗到底,可能甚至诅咒那人。

所以我真的满心感谢我遇见了影响我一生的一位老师。是他的生活和精神如此改变了我的命运。
这两天这样被对待,我没有想跟那人计较这么多,我把这芝麻小事当成只是字面上的误会。体谅内心不完全的人,也了解世上70亿个人就有70亿个不同的想法,并且原谅组员把事夸大。

说心情不受到影响是假的。
所以我想起几个月前的“网络霸陵”新闻。
一个台湾女艺人因为在受不了人们网上的批评而日积月累内心的压力而自寻短见。
如此一般,肉体的痛苦都不及内心和精神的痛苦。所以在这精神“生病”的时代,很多人承受不了那像地狱般的痛苦所以挣扎地过着,逐渐枯萎。

有这么一句绝世名言:对人家血气就是杀人犯。即使不骂对方,只在内心对对方生闷气,其实自己的灵魂已过去把对方杀了一般残忍。

很夸张?一点都不。仔细思考这句名言,体会它真的是生命呐!

心要够强,靠自己最终会倒塌。唯有向了解自己的神、圣灵、圣子学习才会成为纵然风雨袭击依然坚定的人。

修造的过程真的很棒~咱们约定不做情绪的奴隶,好呗?

会不会有人记得我

大家还记得安钧璨吗?
尤其是1985-1995年出生的年轻人们,一定知道他了!
他就是当时2000年初台湾可米小子一员,当时是我小学和中学期间。
还在中一时期,有学长姐在学校庆典在台上唱着他们红翻的《青春纪念册》还献上很受欢迎的手语呢!

他在今年6月1日,因肝癌而不幸离开人世。
但是,他不会只留下伤感给这世上,因为过去他是《康熙来了》的常客,留下无数欢笑幽默的回忆。
以下片段是他生前最后在《康熙来了》的录影。
幽默中带出他最真实的想法。每天不管是睡不着的夜晚甚至是清醒的时候,他都想过“会不会有人记得我”。

世上73亿人口,一定有80%的人会有着他那样的想法。
人就像海边细沙一样,更像是宇宙中的尘埃。
每天想着,我就是宇宙里银河系里的一个地球的一个
会发现,我要追求的世上名利、财富、享乐,只不过是过眼云烟。

如果有一个人开始思考人生的意义,那是人成长以来灵魂里最自然不过的呼唤。就像发育期一样,告诉人说:你已在进行身体的成长,到这个十多岁的黄金时机,属于身体的脑也会在那层次上更快地成长发达着。
在这个阶段,你的灵魂也会苏醒的。所以内心会有一把声音“我的人生意义是什么”。

有人特别看重;
有人寻找着,却因为没坚持找下去而让这把声音放在心底,甚至遗忘,虚空过着70年人生;
有人觉得这把内心的声音很深奥,干脆不愿去想算了。

Powerful Love

It’s True, Moms Have SUPER POWERS! Here Are 20 Ways We Can Prove It.





May is known as a month for all mothers in the world.

The motherly love is soft, warm and comfortable
because this is the kind of love that touches our soul and spirit. 
Since we were born in the mother's womb, we are been to receive the love.

Love is the essential element that we could not live without
because love is the truth for us to live.
There are different levels of love in the world. 
By realizing the love from our dear mother,
we would know that how the Creator's love.

洗牙记

今天,终于可以去洗牙了。
洗牙的过程,刺耳的电钻声,我紧闭眼睛得皱着眉头。
因为....很痛的说...

我的心就一直呼喊着一个人的名。
结果出现的是他洁白的牙齿、灿烂的笑容。让我还能把焦点转移。
几年没养成一年至少洗一次牙的习惯,所以这次的下场是洗了牙过了半天咬食物时还是感到牙龈痛。
知错了!会好好照顾牙齿的。
很感谢神的是我的两排牙齿还蛮整齐的。(暗喜XD)

其实,在刺耳的机器声充斥我耳朵的时候,我的双脚是紧绷的,
脑子还浮现了母亲生孩子的画面。
我想:我这至少五分钟的痛楚就让我在心里喊停,更何况是生育的那痛楚呢?
生命真的极其宝贵。

是造就自己和使用

呵呵~这是我写部落六年来头一次分享个人的保养秘诀。
在中学时期,脸比较暗淡和容易出油。
但是近几年很多身边人、甚至韩国人说我的脸色好看。
坦白说,不是没原因的噢!呵呵。。
今天就免费推荐你我觉得很好的产品。
贴心提醒:先了解你的肤质再参考哦

巧遇

今天不知是什么日子。
我把它定为"刚巧"。
今天,因为其中一个科系qualitative research功课的需要,我组访问了某个班上外国学生B.聊后确认他竟然住在我所住的地方附近,真是不可思议。因为我大学离我所住的地方搭公共交通需45车程。

听了他的故事,发现一人到异国升学是不容易的事。感谢神透过人给了一些启发。
然后,回到家附近时,走在路上。一个熟悉的人迎面而来。那样子好熟悉,让我们彼此走过对方就很自然地回望。对了,原来是失联7,8年的马来朋友啊!虽然记得我的脸但竟然忘了我的名。哈哈。没想到他住在附近。后会联络。我无法忘记那个擦肩而过,因为熟悉而再次回头看的那感觉。让我想起话语说过"等一下"在我们生活中会带来新风采或时机。

"fainted" on coffee

Flashback, a few days ago, it was a windy Tuesday. Jo Ee who is my friend studying psychology,too in another college came to join my lecture class. Haha no one noticed that she is an outcomer. XD
Well, after the class finished,it was the hardest time that I have been facing every school day. Ease access to food around my university!! sad case.


Finally,we chose Star***** since I have the voucher.
After fews years not touching caffeine, this was my first time of having it again.
After that, I really want to admit that I am really not a fan of coffee, neither mocha nor frappucino(which has no caffeine).
I was dizzy after consumed 3/4 of the rasberry triffle mocha.
It was the feeling of being overfull,plus the  fainting feeling. To be frank, I don't like the feeling.
In the same day I still can get to sleep on 11pm. XD For me, there is no insomnia problem after drinking coffee and even teh tarik.
That's why I don't understand why people can addict on it XD

I always remember my teacher Joshua Jung's philosophy.
"If you forget to manage your health,you will die."
Don't take it like an easy sentence.
How many people really keep to maintain health each day?
He stays in a limited space for years. However, nothing nor environment stop him to exercise everyday. Henceforth, he is a 70 who looks like 50 now.
This thing really has impressed me.
He also always give advice on the food.
1.Don't eat instant noodles.
2.don't eat too salty and spicy.
3.Don't drink coffee.

And I realize the significance of these simple phrases
If I forget to manage my health, I will die. Based on system approach, not only my physical body gets weak, but also my soul and spirit get wilt.
That's why the Malay old saying states, "badan sihat, otak cerdas."
Let's empower our lives with the philosophy as mentioned. I am pretty sure we will get the amazing treasures. Yeah~ grateful.

2015 (M.M)

Yesterday,which was on 2014, countdown for a new year with Him .
I really find that I am not a night owl which can't stand until 2am.
So, around that time, I fainted. XD

My first breakfast of 2015, was with these fun and cute sisters.

Truly expecting for this brand new year 2015 and I have listed down the goals.
Meanwhile, I realized I have many things to do. Hence, the hopes are coming because I will have a fruitful year ahead.
1 year (365 days) suddenly pops out like one day. It would been fade away if you don't grasp it.
Like my life mentor  said:Putting [things] into practice is victory. Having taken action is victory. Complete [things] by taking action doing your best.
So the bright path, a year of missionary, fighting ^^

特殊能力

前天圣诞节,我更确实发现,我的头脑有个特别的能力。
话说,当天晚上献上意义深厚的“Holy Night”。
练习和开声的时候,我帮忙教导其他报佳音的成员如何开声。
坦白说,我不会教导唱歌的,但我决心想让大家和自己提升,因为很想做,而后来大家真的开到声,和音部分更加柔和和响亮了。
如同总是教导我真理的老师说到:去做就会达成,不去做就不会达成。
当然,变化不是瞬间的。大家没有音乐的根基,但是更打动神的是那赞美里面的真诚和爱。
是的,在这里,没有硬邦邦的高超唱歌技巧,却有着世面歌唱比赛都无法胜任的心情和爱。

part-time job

Honest speaking, I found that I seldom take picture with juniors. In other words, I feel weird when I realized that I am taking  photo with those who are younger than me XD. Yea most of the time, my photos include my seniors and juniors, but so occasionally I can be the oldest in the picture .haha. 

Well, yesterday was my first time of part-time job "Digi roadshow promoter". These two little sister and brother are my companions . They are Rebecca and Ah Fan. Surprisingly, Rebecca is just 15-year-old. 

Anyway, really nice to meet them and talk with them alot.
Standing in around continuous 7 hours and My legs feel pain. 
Anyway, thanks God because I finally found a part time job which starts from 10am-6pm. Generally, such sort of job is from 12-9pm. (That long and late~)

All in all, At the first time I have learnt something and I believe I will gain some more realizations and treasures every single day.

This job is until this Friday and I will enjoy no matter how bored it seems because the basis of everything used to be bored but we will raise level if doing the same thing persistantly.

Aza aza fighting ^^ woohoo ^^

Little changes because of anxiety @,@

ahhh~ I am here sharing you about an interesting fact on me.
Other people used to lose weight when they work or study,
but I become slimmer during semester breaks.
Conversely, I would eat more when I am in my school time.
I can't wait for the December to come.
Because right now, I seem have no enough time to do a proper exercise!! ( This is what I have shouted in my heart these weeks XD)
So alternatively, I choose to eat less. Especially, eat less calories at night or after 8pm.
From yesterday on, I decided to make it best until 31 october. When my body allows that change, I will continue.
If you are in this situation, what would you do?

Thanks God because I study psychology, those chapters of subjects are applicable in my daily life. For instance, the chapter covers self-conscious or self-monitoring. At the moment, I will look at myself from the view of personality, habit, health status and so forth.

Recently, I have also found something changed, which is I will become weak in expressing what I want to say if I do not write it or say it out.
As compared to the past, I speak far less often since I have realized speaking much is not the essence. whereas speaking less but with main points is the core philosophy.

Honestly speaking, everytime I open my blog, I am about to write but I am stucked there. Then, I end up without writing something.
As time goes by, I feel like I am not that expressive anymore.
Even in the Facebook, I am not likely to click "Like" or share some meaningful posts. ( I have never liked to share my emotion or status ).

Guess what? The main reason is the busy semester, which makes me get anxious all the time ( You know blood type A person is easily anxious). I don't want to have anxiety disorder ,man! I strongly believe I can make it. (self-talk begins XD)

Perhaps, this part is the one I need to cope with.

Thanks God again, that before 2014 ends, I still have many things to learn, no matter in any aspects.

当刺变成温馨提醒

今早看到某人对我说的话。写于我临睡时分。
一开始心里是有刺的,接着心中很快听到祂的声音,就思考了各方面,应允了这主日话语“进行计划前,先要确保不会产生其他问题而去做。把事情多面来看。”很感谢祂,我心中的刺几分钟后就拔出了。
这次我真的很喜悦,看到我的改变。
若不是遇见改变我人生的老师,以前我的个性一定是会以牙还牙。