Carnegie's messages to me

Recent book i have been reading is Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People.
Those who are my chums, intimates, or frequent followers,shall know i like such genre of books which relate to my favourite aspect.
well,i am quite astonished that there is just a little people who know this past great author.
actually this book was bought a few years ago.
so funny that i have been just starting it recently.

while reading it, i think of the people who criticise or have wrong viewpoints on psychology.
last week, one of my lecturer seemed denouncing those who are going into this area.
on that time, i am furious, how i wish i can stop his sarcastic mouth.
but that is no point that i do that. since he often has his own sarcastic character as we all his students have known. he has to be respected, and especially, i do not need to be mad with such people who do not even know the great importance of psychology.
every careers has its greatness. so sad that there is a natural phenomenon of most people admire doctors,lawyers and professionals. how about others?if all people in the world are doctors and professionals, u can imagine what a world is. thus, it is ridiculous that we all only admire doctors,pharmacists and else so-called prominent careers.

you ought to know, everything starts from your thoughts.
Dale Carnegie once said,' one secret of success is it lies in the ability to get the other person's viewpoint and see things from that person's angle as well as your own.'
i consent to him deeply.
i always realise the importance of psychology that gives me and i am certain it is extremely useful in my future no matter on work or in daily life as long as interacting with people around.
In addition, psychologists are not people always use a weird eyes to look at you like scrutinising you.
psychologists are someone who would like to understand people and to help people.
at least, it is always my belief.

anyway, for those who do not understand something they always do not understand and oppose or resent,
give you own a chance to understand those matters you dislike .
as if you would know what a big difference is.
it is because thoughts constrict you from that previously.
 Do not control by thoughts, but shall have subconscious with you usually.

p/s . countdown .... 5 days to go.

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1 comment:

  1. nice review, hopefully more reviews would come up in the future ;)

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